The recordspeaks for itself.

De Kind keeps a verified, timestamped log of custody time, shared costs, and every request made between parents — so there's nothing to argue about.

Three pillars.
One clear record.

Every feature exists to reduce ambiguity — not to create conflict, but to remove the conditions where conflict grows.

Custody Calendar

Log days, nights, and full days spent with each parent. Visual monthly view. Per-child tracking. Both parents see the same record in real time.

Free
Verified Requests

Parent A sends a formal in-app request. Parent B receives it, acknowledges, then accepts or declines. Every step is timestamped. Nothing can be denied or rewritten.

Free
Cost Tracker & Export

Log clothing, school fees, activities, and medical costs per parent. Export a clean PDF summary — legal-ready, solicitor-readable — covering any date range you choose.

Premium

Up and running
in four steps.

No lengthy onboarding. No mediator required. Just two parents and an invite code.

  1. 1
    Create your account

    Register with your email. Takes under a minute. No payment required to start.

  2. 2
    Invite the other parent

    Share a unique 8-character code. When they join, both accounts are linked to the same household record.

  3. 3
    Start logging

    Add custody time, send requests, log costs. Both parents see the same shared record in real time.

  4. 4
    Export when needed

    Generate a timestamped PDF covering any period. Designed to be read by solicitors and family courts.

Simple. Fair. No surprises.

The core record — custody log and verified requests — is free for both parents. Premium unlocks the export when you need it.

Monthly
Annual Save 20%
Free
£0
forever, both parents
  • Custody calendar (90 days)
  • Verified request log (90 days)
  • Cost tracker (90 days)
  • Paired household accounts
  • Real-time shared record
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